UNLOCK THE SECRETS TO
A WONDERFUL MARRIAGE

 
 

"WONDERFUL MARRIAGE acknowledges the practical ways to achieve a happy relationship—without compromise or conflict."

JOHN GRAY, PhD, Author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

 

AS SEEN IN THE MAY ISSUE OF REDBOOK MAGAZINE

 

WONDERFUL MARRIAGE shares the no-nonsense, powerful and practical habits of a happily married couple of 57 years . . . and adds the wisdom of a bestselling relationship expert.

Have you ever seen a couple still deeply in love after decades of marriage? You watch them hold hands, laugh deeply, appear deeply connected with one another, and you wonder, What is their secret? How do they make their relationship work? Will I ever be that happy? The answer is a resounding “YES!” WONDERFUL MARRIAGE will make you believe that you too can have a happy and long-lasting relationship.

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Lilo and Gerry Leeds, entrepreneurs, philanthropists and a happily married couple, reveal the secrets of a successful relationship gleaned from their lives and from researching many other couples who have had wonderful, long-lasting marriages.

 

 

What exactly does this book offer?

  • An honest approach to arguing—healthy couples do disagree

  • Healthy ways for both partners to achieve sexual satisfaction

  • Tips on balancing a growing family, a demanding career and finances

  • An additional contribution from bestselling author Terrence Real

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A Word from an Expert:

“Familiarity can breed contempt or contentment. Heed the principles in WONDERFUL MARRIAGE to make sure your relationship stays fresh, sexy and strong. ”

―Ian Kerner, sex therapist and NY Times bestselling author

 

 
 

After enough people pressed Lilo and Gerard Leeds for the secret to their marital happiness, they decided to compile their shared knowledge into one incredible book. From that idea WONDERFUL MARRIAGE: A GUIDE TO BUILDING A GREAT RELATIONSHIP THAT WILL LAST A LIFETIME was born. In this refreshing and relevant book, Lilo and Gerry tap into the wisdom they've garnered from nearly 60 years together while also compiling findings from dozens of interviews with other happily married couples.

Wonderful Marriage is organized into 10 easy-to-follow chapters which highlight the essential elements of a happy marriage. Bestselling author Terrence Real, author of The New Rules of Marriage, joins the Leeds and shares his expertise and learned insights about couples who go the distance. Real has provided an engaging foreword and a comprehensive afterword chapter that supports and builds on the Leeds strong message.

Topics covered in WONDERFUL MARRIAGE include:

  • How to communicate lovingly

  • How to maintain intimacy

  • How to be the right partner

  • How to keep sex satisfying for both partners

  • How to raise children

  • How to handle finances and busy career

WONDERFUL MARRIAGE is more than just a trendy relationship book to pick up in order to salvage a crumbling union. This book is intended for all couples. The Leeds weren’t satisfied with a mediocre marriage and it ’ s refreshing to find no couple should be. It’s easy to clutter a relationship with thoughts about what goes wrong, but the Leeds remind and encourage couples to focus on what a relationship could be―wonderful, for life.

Lilo and Gerry Leeds, a couple who has spent 57 years respecting and loving each other, are offering you the chance to strengthen and reinvigorate your own marriage.

For the next five days, when you order WONDERFUL MARRIAGE, you will get exclusive bonus gifts from the partners of BenBella Books.

The Big Six
The key to a happy and wonderful relationship is not to avoid differences but to acknowledge important issues before they hurt a partnership.

Here are six big issues you should never ignore in any relationship:

1. Religion: You and your partner should feel comfortable with the role religion will play (if any) in your marriage

2. Money: You should communicate with your spouse about how you both will earn, spend and save money

3. Sex: You and your spouse should feel that your sexual needs are being met. Sex is different for every couple, but it should always be great

4. Children: A happy couple decides together whether or not they want to have children and how to raise any children they do have

5. Recreational activities: You don’t have to share every interest with your spouse and time alone is important, but happy couples enjoy the time they spend together

6. Acceptable behavior: Each individual can only accept what they’re comfortable living with. You should talk with your spouse about what you feel is and isn’t acceptable in a relationship

 
 
 

A Word from an Expert:

“Wonderful Marriage isn’t just another relationship advice book. It is an honest and authentic approach to making a relationship work. It offers useful guidance and insight into what actually makes a partnership go the distance. ”

―Chérie Carter-Scott, PhD, author of, If Love is a Game, These are the Rules

 

 

 
Meet the authors
 

 

Lilo and Gerard Leeds met in a ski lodge in the Adirondack Mountains in 1950, were married in 1951 and now, more than 55 years later, have a family of five children and 13 grandchildren.

Lilo and Gerard hold degrees in math and science, respectively, received their Master’s degrees together in liberal arts, and have, between them, seven honorary doctorates. They live in Long Island, N.Y.

 

Terrence Real has been a family therapist and teacher for more than 20 years. Terry’s work has been celebrated in venues from Today and 20/20 to Oprah and The New York Times. He lives in Boston with his wife and two sons.

 
 

 

Susan Seliger is an award-winning writer, magazine editor, editorial and marketing consultant.

 

 
More thoughts from the experts:

“You can tell from the first page the Leeds know what they are talking about. This book is about setting—and getting high standards in marriage. How refreshing! A powerful, practical book written by people who have walked the walk! The Leeds set a high standard for marriage and do convince the reader we all can achieve this. Inspiring; hopeful; touching; informing. I really liked the book and was touched by its authenticity and especially liked the “don’t settle” message as well as agreeing on the Big Six! All very doable and durable! ”
―Pat Love, Ed.D. co-author How to Improve Your Marriage without Talking about It

“Now you can take out a marriage life insurance plan by simply reading WONDERFUL MARRIAGE: A Guide To Building a Relationship That Will Last A Lifetime by Lilo and Gerard Leeds! In it they offer the specific ingredients to connect in all the ways that will create a happy, healthy and vibrant marriage for life. It's a must read for all married couples! ”
―Dr. Jane Greer, Marriage & Family Therapist, author of How Could You Do This To Me? Learning To Trust After Betrayal, www.drjanegreer.com

“WONDERFUL MARRIAGE is a wonderful guide to help find true love and enter a relationship that can lead to a great marriage! The chapter about 'Dating with Purpose' is advice I give my clients. Be prepared to devote time and positive energy to finding your partner. Smart dating takes commitment and focus and the results will pay off. Keeping this book by your bedside can help guide you from dating through sharing a whole wonderful life together.”
―Lisa Ronis, NYC Matchmaker and Dating Coach

 
 

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It may seem strange to get tips for a successful marriage from the owners of Divorce Magazine and www.divorcemagazine.com. Actually we just celebrated our 10th anniversary.

We started the magazine 12 years ago to help people who are going through a divorce to have their divorce be compassionate and peaceful and to create a new future. For a lot of our readers and site visitors, that new future includes having a wonderful marriage the second time around.  Through the past 12 years, we’ve learned a few things about relationships from our readers and experts who wrote for us.  We thought we’d share some of our thoughts on how to have a successful marriage.

 
 

 
   

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Read about one couple’s adventure back in time in See You in a Hundred Years: Four Seasons in Forgotten America

 
     
 

 

 

“The basic premise is this: If it didn’t exist in 1900, we will do without.” See You in a Hundred Years is the story of one family’s year in a farmhouse in Swoope, Virginia, living as if it were 1900 and trying to simplify their lives. Years of working long hours surrounded by technology, stress and strangers had taken their toll on Logan Ward and his wife Heather, and to save their marriage and their sanity, Logan and Heather sold their belongings, packed up their two-year-old son, and moved to a rundown farmhouse in the country without any plans past surviving the year. Adventure travel writer Logan Ward chronicles their year in 1900—what the move solved and what it didn’t, what they lost and what they gained. As they struggle with recalcitrant livestock and garden-destroying bugs, rain that won’t come and their own insecurities, they discover a sense of community and a sense of themselves that changes not only their marriage, but the entire Swoope, Virginia community. Lyrically told and powerfully evocative, See You in a Hundred Years is a memoir for our modern age that struggles with today’s growing sense of disassociation and yearning to escape the frenetic pace of daily life. It’s a different kind of travel narrative, detailing not the dislocation of place, but time, and taking the read to what may be the most lost world of all—our own past.

 
 
 

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